How to Recognise If Your Dog Wants To Play

Signs A Dog Wants To Play

It’s handy to know how to spot the signs that your dog wants to play. They will usually invite you over with a bow action where their front end is on the floor and their rear end is up in the air. They use this bow to let others know that it’s playtime! Other signs you may see are spinning, tail wagging, barking to get your attention, or even a cheesy grin!

How To Play With A Dog

Sometimes it can be difficult to know how to play with a dog as some prefer to play with people, and others might like playing by themselves. If you’re wondering “why won’t my dog play with me?” They might prefer solo playing such as throwing and running with a toy, a chew, or a puzzle toy. If you’re just starting out playing with your dog, activities such as retrieving, tugging, or chasing toys are great for allowing them to play to their natural instincts.

Other dog play ideas can include: 

• Tug of war – This is a rewarding game for dogs, but it’s important to encourage them to grab the toy gently. Make sure there are cues in place like “yes” or “off” to signal when it’s time to release the toy and let them “win” often enough to keep them interested. Remember, this game should be relaxed – keep a loose body tension and your dog should follow your lead!
• Retrieve – Retrieval games are great for improving your dog’s focus and listening skills. Encourage your dog to return the toy by making yourself interesting or exciting for them to come back to, and reward them for bringing the toy back. Over time, the reward will become the toy. Just be careful not to overuse this play idea as it can be very physical, and some dogs won’t want to stop.
• Hide and seek – This is another great dog play activity that allows for exercise and mental stimulation. Ask your dog to stay in a “sit” or “down” position, then give them a cue to come and find you. When they do make sure to praise and reward them.

Safe Dog Play Tips and Respecting Boundaries

When playing with your dog, you want to make sure it’s fun but also safe. Knowing how to play with a dog safely depends on your ability to read their body language and judge their surroundings. When assessing your dog’s body language, consider their age, personality, and breed, as this can influence their play behaviour and how they express themselves. If you notice your dog is starting to feel uncomfortable or becoming over aroused during play – for instance by becoming more tense or moving their ears back – you can calmly help them move away from the other dog or move closer to them. 

Play With Other Dogs

So, what about when our dogs want (or don’t want!) to play with other dogs?

Remember, it's completely fine for your dog to be picky about their playmates. Take care not to force them to interact when visiting places with lots of other dogs (such as dog parks) or when organising playdates. Instead, follow your dog’s lead: if they find dog parks overwhelming, choose other places for their exercise or check out times they are less busy.

If your dog does want to play but can’t find a suitable playmate, move on and try another time. Or alternatively, organise play dates for dogs you know they’re friendly with. And that doesn’t just mean picking the humans you happen to be friends with yourself!

You can also try offering your dog an ADAPTIL Chew if they’re wary of things when they’re out and about. These contain a combination of ingredients that help our pooches to feel more relaxed. Just bear in mind they can take up to 30 minutes to start working, so make sure to give it to your dog ahead of time. Or for another approach, try our ADAPTIL Calm Collar. This uses natural appeasing messages to help dogs adapt to unsettling situations. Each collar provides up to 30 days of support and is a great solution for nervous pups exploring outdoors.

If you notice any changes in your dog’s interest in play, or if you see them worried about interacting with other dogs, be sure to visit your vet. They will be able to check for any underlying medical issues. A certified animal behaviourist or qualified trainer can also help you with training and behaviour advice.

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